Friday, April 4, 2008

Hey guys you know this week I watch a show and it was really sad. A father who got into debts of a loan shark committed suicide. His son is a lawyer on that day was so happy when he got a job at the government's sector. So he got home and saw a letter left by his dad. he opened it and read it. He was shocked when he saw the letter.

On the rooftop the father left his glasses on the ledge before jumping down and he said. " I always wanted to see my son fighting in court, but I doubt I would ever have a chance". He jumped down. At the point of time his father just jumped off the roof. He looked out of the window and saw his father on the ground dead. And I have learnt something from it.

You see friends sometimes its too late for regrets. The father committed sucide because his family doesn't trust him. And its a little too late for regrets. Regret is often felt when someone feels sadness, shame, or guilt after committing an action or actions that the person later wishes that he or she had not done.

Regret is distinct from guilt, which is a deeply emotional form of regret — one which may be difficult to comprehend in an objective or conceptual way. Like what Pastor say Shame and guilt can cause distress in peoples emotional life.

Not only that it can cause

  • Health Problems
  • Strenght in Ability
  • Relationships Distress
  • Emotional Problems
  • Spiritual Life
  • Thought Life

Trust is a relationship of reliance.Trust does not need to involve belief in the good character, vices, or morals of the other party. Persons engaged in a criminal activity usually trust each other to some extent. Also trust does not need to include an action that you and the other party are mutually engaged in. Trust is a prediction of reliance on an action, based on what a party knows about the other party. Trust is a statement about what is otherwise unknown -- for example, because it is far away, cannot be verified, or is in the future.

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Okay I guess its a little deep for you guys to understand but still try too :) NIGHT xoxo loves your sis in christ